Frequently Asked Questions

What are the fees to attend a Designed2Thrive retreat?

Thanks to the generosity of guests and ministry partners who believe in strengthening marriages, we are able to offer complimentary rooms and meals for our retreats. Their donations help make it possible for couples to attend.

Please do not let finances hold you back from registering. We would love for you to experience a Christ-centered weekend designed to refresh and reconnect your marriage.

Are D2T retreats only for marriages in crisis?

Not at all! We are in the ministry of helping marriages thrive in every season.

Whether you are:

Do I have to be personally invited by someone at D2T to sign up?

No invitation is required! Anyone is welcome to register directly on our website. You are also welcome to refer or invite friends and family.

While a personal invitation isn’t necessary, we do have an intake process so we can get to know each couple before they attend.

Retreats do fill quickly, but there are multiple opportunities throughout the year. We encourage you to register early or join a cancellation list if a retreat is full. Openings do become available!

Is there always a waiting list? Will we be able to attend this year?

We’re too busy right now. Is the time commitment manageable?

We understand that schedules can be full. Our retreats are designed to be a focused weekend investment in your marriage. Many couples find that setting aside this dedicated time actually strengthens every other area of their lives.

If your marriage is important to you, this weekend can be one of the most meaningful commitments you make together.

• Engaged and looking to prepare for marriage

• Newly married and need to finish or never started premarital classes

• Looking for enrichment to strengthen an already healthy marriage

• Walking through a challenging season and ready to repair hurts

When can we attend a D2T marriage retreat again?

We’re so grateful to hear that you enjoyed your retreat and are interested in attending again! We typically recommend that couples wait 3–5 years before returning, allowing time to fully apply what was shared and continue growing together. However, if special circumstances arise, please don’t hesitate to reach out—we’re always just a phone call away.

No matter your season, Designed2Thrive retreats are for you.

We attended a premarital retreat, when can we attend a marriage retreat?

We encourage couples to wait two years after their premarital retreat before participating in a marriage retreat, allowing time to apply what they’ve learned. However, if special circumstances arise, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

Do you have to be married a certain length of time before attending a marriage retreat?

D2T retreats are meaningful for couples in every season—from newlyweds to those married for decades. If you did not attend a premarital retreat with us, you’re welcome to register for a marriage retreat at any time. If you did attend a D2T premarital retreat, we recommend waiting two years before attending a marriage retreat.

I would prefer to bring my own food, is this permitted?

Meals are included with your stay, and we take dietary restrictions and allergies very seriously. Our venues work hard to ensure that all guests are served food that is safe for them. That said, we do not have a policy prohibiting outside food. If bringing your own food or snacks helps you feel more comfortable, you are absolutely welcome to do so.

Do D2T retreats have break out sessions? If so, what are they like?

We do! Our men’s and women’s breakout sessions are a key part of the retreat experience and one of the many things that make our retreats different from others. Twice during the weekend, you’ll meet in gender-specific groups with your facilitators to reflect on the teaching, discuss practical application, and ask questions. These conversations often become some of the most impactful moments of the retreat as our guests learn, grow, and pray alongside others.

In addition to the break out sessions, we provide an optional mentor hour for couples. This is a dedicated time for couples to connect one-on-one with a facilitating couple to ask questions, seek guidance, and receive prayer and support.

Can I bring my infant or small pet?

We understand that it can be hard to step away but, to help create a focused and restful environment for all couples, we ask that children and pets not attend the retreat. We encourage you to arrange childcare and pet care so you can fully unplug and invest in your time together.

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